ttanewyork
Well-Known Member
I asked my girl friend to merry me at the hockey game the other night on the jumbo tron in front of 20,000 people.
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and the answer was.....
She said yes, and then they sounded the goal horn.
Cool choice of proposal venues.
Enjoy the engagement. While you still have some spare time.....
May I recommend a reading of the very informative book titled "The Predatory Female". It will assist you with the issue of emotions clouding judgement; a little truth can help anyone.
The Predatory Female by Rev. Lawrence Shannon
http://forums.forbes.com/forbes/board/message?board.id=respond_marry_career_woman&message.id=4355
Enjoy,
Rich
Having gone through the engagement then the wedding part a couple times now I've come to a rather simple analogy of what your role,the man(small case), really is...
You are to the entire process... the place kicker in a football game. Your job isn't to call the plays,run with the ball, catch the ball, do any interviews ro claim any kind of credit whatsoever.
Those rolls are taken by the bride, her close friend and her mother.
Your job is to look good and stand on the side lines...come out when called, do your little part and then go back to the bench.:whistle:
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Perfect analogy.
May I offer..... that after the reception, from that moment forward, you will pay to be a player (place kicker) on the team.
Having gone through the engagement then the wedding part a couple times now I've come to a rather simple analogy of what your role,the man(small case), really is...
You are to the entire process... the place kicker in a football game. Your job isn't to call the plays,run with the ball, catch the ball, do any interviews ro claim any kind of credit whatsoever.
Those rolls are taken by the bride, her close friend and her mother.
Your job is to look good and stand on the side lines...come out when called, do your little part and then go back to the bench.:whistle:
....
...
Is it sad I have already figured this out? :eeks:
George,
I, like you, have a long time girlfriend, 9+ years. Great friends, still laugh, love and treat each other with kindness every day. Kind of like the relationship with your TTA every day.
Rich
